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The Journey Beyond Loss
Grief extends its reach beyond death. It touches the corners of our lives where dreams lay dormant, where paths were not taken, and where the life we envisioned remains but a whisper. This form of grief is subtle, often unacknowledged, yet it weighs heavily on the soul. It's the pang of regret for the career not pursued, the book not written, or the love not confessed. It's mourning for a version of life that exists only in the world of “what if.”
Together We Thrive
In our fast-paced world, the concept of community might seem like a quaint relic of the past. However, my personal experiences over the last few years have profoundly shown me that being in a community, even virtually, is more relevant and beneficial than ever. Whether it’s working out with a friend or joining a meditation group, the act of coming together, even remotely, offers a multitude of benefits that enrich our lives in various ways.
Holiday Simplicity
The holidays are not just about grand gestures and lavish celebrations. They are about the warmth of a shared laugh, the glow of a candle, the comforting aroma of a home-cooked meal. It's in these simple pleasures that the magic of the season truly resides.
Courage to Launch
Two years ago, a seed of a dream was planted. It was more than just an idea; it was a calling, a whisper of potential that echoed in my heart. This seed, was the beginning of Imperfectly Charming, a podcast that would eventually become a sanctuary for women seeking heart-centered guidance and transformative storytelling. But the journey to this point was not without its trials.
Life Lessons from Both Sides
Although I’m a life coach, I’m also a woman reimagining her own life. My transformational path has been less about reaching a destination and more about understanding the journey itself. It’s an expedition paved not with certainties, but with the rich soil of self-discovery, where seeds of wisdom are sown by both teacher and student.
Heart Full
It’s already that time of year again, and as the holiday season draws near, filling the air twinkling lights and timeless carols, our thoughts often turn to the art of giving. Along with the hustle and bustle of shopping sprees, meal planning, and social events, it's easy to forget that the most profound gift you can offer to the world begins with yourself.
Lessons in Coffee
Life is a lot like making a cup of coffee, full of unexpected spills, surprises, and moments that don't turn out quite as we planned. Recently, I embarked on a coffee making adventure that not only left my kitchen in chaos but also taught me valuable lessons about resilience, adaptability, and the beauty of embracing life's unexpected twists.
Unexpected Wisdom
Once upon a weekend, a group of women gathered for a transformative retreat. Each was asked to bring a gem of wisdom, a "knowing" within their hearts to offer one another. And so, I chose to share an often overlooked but deeply vital treasure: the importance of making time to play, a concept we, as adults, often neglect like an unread book gathering dust on a shelf.
The Magic of Reconnection
As the poet Mary Oliver wrote, "What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" Together, in these sacred spaces, we had found an answer: To explore, to connect, to transform, and above all, to love, beginning with ourselves.
Woven Threads
It is finally happening. The universe, in its divine wisdom, has cleared a path for us. We are coming together again, for another pilgrimage of the spirit. The location may differ, but the soul of the journey, the promise of further transformation, remains the same.
Beyond the Gray
Life's moments of overcast skies can sometimes overshadow our inner sun. We question, we doubt, and we even fear. But beneath these temporary clouds, our inner strength, our unyielding belief, continues to shimmer, reminding us that a new day, a new beginning, is always on the horizon.
The Sands of Time
Have you ever watched the movement of an hourglass as the seconds, minutes, and hours move from the top to the bottom? With unwavering tempo, time moves forward, never pausing, never waiting. And yet, so often, we find ourselves anchored in place by an invisible yet overpowering force, fear.
A Lesson in Love
"It's not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It's necessary,” - Mandy Hale. I invite you on a heartfelt journey with me, as I share a personal tale of rediscovering self-love. In this week’s blog post, I unfold the transformative process of recognizing when it's time to prioritize your well-being over a friendship.
Abundant Garden
Do you hear the birds serenading the dawn, or see how the flowers unfurl their petals to greet the sun? Abundance is not just in bank statements; it’s in these magical everyday moments. Being open means donning a pair of heart-tinted glasses to see the wealth all around you, even in the most unexpected places.
Hide or Seek
As children, we delighted in the game of hide and seek. Most of us remember those childhood days, crouching in a closet or behind a tree, hoping not to be found. The thrill of finding the perfect hiding spot or the exhilaration of being the one to find everyone else. What happens when the game is no longer about giggling behind the bushes but rather hiding from life?
Reflected Grace
It's a universal truth that as parents, we often underestimate the impact we have on our children's lives. We may not realize that they are not just observing our actions, but also absorbing the essence of who we are. Our gestures of love, kindness, and resilience are all these facets that leave an indelible mark on their beings.
The Path to Positive Change
In life, we are constantly weaving connections with others, and sometimes, those threads can become tangled, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and drained. Establishing healthy boundaries with ourselves and others is a powerful tool to reclaim our inner peace and pave the way for positive change. Through kindness, courage, and intentional action, we can create a fulfilling life that is aligned with our values and aspirations.
Easy Like Sunday Morning
In a world that often glorifies the busy hustle, bustle, and constant striving, we often find ourselves caught in a tangle of making things seem harder than they really need to be. What if we could unlock the power of simplicity and embrace the ease of a relaxed Sunday morning? Every time I push my grand daughter in her swing, I’m reminded to slow down, stop rushing, worry less, and trust more.