If I asked you, right now, “What do you want?” how would you answer? Not what your partner wants. Not what your kids need. Not what your job requires. Not what sounds good to the world around you. But you… your soul, your heart, and your spirit. What do you truly want?

Life has a way of moving fast. Between work, commitments, growing families, and the general hustle of everyday living, it’s easy to let time slip through our fingers. Although I live near both of my brothers, Jeff and Greg, and their amazing wives, Dee and Pat, we don’t always get the chance to spend quality time together as often as we’d like. My sister Cindy and her husband Steve live out in Virginia, so visits with them are even more rare and precious.

Have you ever noticed that when you dwell on the negative, more negativity seems to follow? Or when you focus on gratitude, suddenly blessings seem to appear all around you? That’s no coincidence. The energy we put out into the world has a powerful way of shaping our experiences.

Life isn’t meant to be walked alone. We are wired for connection, for deep and meaningful relationships that make us feel seen, heard, and valued. Whether it’s your childhood best friend, a group of like-minded women, a church family, or an online support network finding your people, and your community changes everything.

If you had told me a few years ago that I’d be spending multiple weekends wrangling two little ones under the age of three, I probably would have laughed and said, “That’s adorable, but no thanks.” Yet, here I am, stepping up to the challenge, embracing the chaos, and somehow still standing.

Life moves fast. We often find ourselves focusing on what’s missing, what’s broken, or what we wish could be different. But what if, for just a moment, we flipped the script? Instead of getting caught up in the green-eyed glasses of jealousy and comparison, what if we looked at the world and said, “I want some of that,” not with envy but with inspiration?

In every superhero story, there's a moment of revelation, when the hero realizes their power, harnesses their strength, and steps into their full potential. But what if I told you that you are the hero of your own story? You don’t need a cape, a secret hideout, or superhuman strength to possess extraordinary abilities. Your superpower is already within you, waiting to be acknowledged, nurtured, and shared with the world.

Right now, my granddaughters, Emery and Autumn, are still so little, tiny hands, bright eyes, and hearts full of wonder. Both under the age of three, they are at the very beginning of their journey in this world, soaking in every moment, every sound, and every touch. As I watch them grow, I can’t help but think about the legacy I want to leave behind for them.

Valentine’s Day has always been one of my favorite days of the year. There’s something special about a day dedicated to love, expressing it, celebrating it, and wrapping ourselves in all things red and pink. We send sweet messages to those we cherish, but how often do we pause and send love to ourselves?

For as long as I can remember, there’s been a voice lurking in the corners of my mind—one that’s quick to judge, eager to criticize, and relentless in its whispers of “not enough.” Not smart enough. Not thin enough. Not accomplished enough. Not lovable enough. Just… not enough. Sound familiar?