Let Love Lead
In a world that often feels divided and disconnected, it’s easy to hold back love from others, and many times, even from ourselves. But what if we could change that? What if we stopped withholding love and allowed it to flow freely, both outward and inward? We withhold love when it has the power to transform, heal, and connect us. It’s time to change that narrative and embrace love fully, both for ourselves and those around us.
Withholding love is often a form of protection. Maybe we’ve been hurt before, betrayed, or let down, so we build barriers to keep pain at bay. For some of us, it’s rooted in self-doubt or feelings of unworthiness. We hesitate to love ourselves, thinking we need to meet certain standards first. But the reality is, love isn’t meant to be conditional, it’s meant to be freely given, starting from within.
Holding back love doesn’t just limit others; it limits us. When we choose not to show love to ourselves, we deny ourselves joy, peace, and the fulfillment that comes from self-compassion. When we withhold love from others, we miss out on deeper connections and the chance to create positive change in our relationships and communities.
Love has a ripple effect. When you choose to show love, whether it’s a kind word, a gesture, or simply listening with an open heart, it extends beyond you. Acts of love inspire others to do the same, creating a cycle of compassion and connection that benefits everyone involved.
Think about the last time someone showed you love in an unexpected way. Maybe it was a friend checking in, a stranger holding the door, or someone telling you they appreciate you. That moment likely left you feeling seen and valued. Imagine how powerful it would be if we all chose to lead with love more often.
Start with Yourself: Self-love is where it all begins. Treat yourself with kindness and speak to yourself as you would a close friend. Acknowledge your strengths and forgive your imperfections. When you learn to love yourself, it becomes easier to love others.
Remove Conditions: Love should not come with strings attached. Let go of the need for perfection, whether it’s in yourself or others. Love isn’t about earning it; it’s about offering it willingly.
Practice Vulnerability: It’s hard to give and receive love if we’re always guarded. Being vulnerable can be scary, but it’s essential for genuine connections. Allow yourself to be open and let others see the real you.
Express Love Freely: Don’t wait for special occasions to show love. Tell your friends and family you appreciate them. Hug your loved ones more often. Send that message you’ve been meaning to write. Little moments of love can change everything.
See Love as Strength: Too often, we see love as a weakness or something that makes us soft. But love is one of the most powerful and courageous acts. It’s what binds families, builds communities, and heals wounds. Real strength lies in choosing love, even when it’s hard.
Learning to embrace love starts with a simple mindset shift: understanding that love, whether given to others or ourselves, is never wasted. It heals, strengthens, and creates a ripple effect of positivity that touches everyone around us.
Choosing love is choosing connection, peace, and understanding. It’s choosing to rise above anger, fear, and indifference. When we love ourselves, we are better equipped to extend that love to others. When we let love lead, we set the tone for those around us, creating an environment where kindness and compassion thrive. Love is not just the answer to personal happiness; it’s the key to a better world. It’s time to stop withholding love and start sharing it freely. Let’s make love the legacy we leave behind.
xoxox…..Sheryl
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