I Don't Cook on Mother's Day

Growing up, there was always an unspoken rule on the second Sunday in May…Mom doesn’t cook on Mother’s Day. Once I had children, I quickly understood the power of that rule, and adopted it myself…haha! For the last several years my children have also let me rule the day. I get to call all the shots and frankly, it makes my heart smile. It doesn’t matter what I suggest, my children always agree…..and to that I say, “WOO to the HOO!”

This year, several family members gathered together to celebrate first with my Mom on her special day. We showered her with love, flowers and assorted gifts, as we shared a meal my brother had catered in. It was nice to celebrate together, as spirited conversation filled the room. It was a beautiful day, and I know my Mom appreciated the time together.

As we arrived back at my house, my children and my son’s fiancee were soon busy working in the yard, as well as prepping for dinner. They scurried about without asking me to assist in any way. Patio furniture and umbrella came out of storage, finishing touches were assembled on my new gas grill, weeds were pulled, and before I knew it……steaks and shrimp were sizzling on the grill.

They set the table, poured the wine, and offered me a beautiful and delicious home cooked meal as we sat on the patio, enjoying each other, and a few hours of springtime weather. My children bantered back and forth over one thing or another, as we laughed over random topics. No one was in a hurry to end dinner or the evening, as I was also showered with flowers and gifts.

It was the perfect way to spend Mother’s Day. First honoring my Mom, and then my children honoring me. I adore my Mom’s and now mine, “I don’t cook on Mother’s Day” rule. Somehow, I think even if I hadn’t adopted the rule, my children would still make sure I didn’t have to do chores or cook on the second Sunday of every May, and for that I’m blessed. How do you honor your someone special on that day?

Wishing the women of the world, a very happy Mother’s Day!

xoxox…..Sheryl