Friendsgiving
With the holidays just around the corner, parties and obligations start popping up on my calendar. Last week, as an ode to friends gathering together on Thanksgiving, I was invited to a “Friendsgiving” feast.
My closest high school friends and I try to get together once a month to connect, laugh, tell stories, and just hang out, as we break bread together. The designated mayor of the group planned a “Friendsgiving” night (a twist on the traditional Thanksgiving get together), even though it was a bit early to be celebrating the actual November holiday.
As the evening began, we toasted our friendship, and raised our glasses for an evening of “Friendsgiving”. I wasn’t able to make the last three get togethers, so it was fun reconnecting on what I had missed. The meal was filled with turkey, dressing, and traditional fixings, as we all pitched in to create the lavish spread. Like always, a prayer of thanksgiving and friendship was offered, and a few tears were shed in love and gratitude.
We laughed, ate, and laughed some more. It’s amazing how many stories swirled around the room, revealing our latest triumphs and painful defeats. We know so much about each other’s lives, children, families and friends. Some get togethers are filled with laughter, and others are peppered with tears, depending on the need or events of the moment.
One of my girlfriends recently suffered the loss of a loved one. We rallied around her with love and compassion; just having us near, was a comfort to her. Words weren’t spoken, just the feelings we had in our hearts were enough.
We also managed to get in a few rounds of games the hostess had prepared. We roared with laughter as the competition began……not to brag….well, OK just a little…..I WON! Who knew my competitive spirit was in full force that night…..sorry Jilly-bean…..HA!
All kidding aside, we realize just how lucky we are to have each other. Girlfriends have special bonds that connect us no matter how many sleeps between get-togethers. We may not have the opportunity to hang out every week, but know we are always just a phone call or “Friendsgiving” away. Here’s to many more first Fridays.
xoxox…..Sheryl