The Golden Rule....Do You?

Growing up one thing I heard over and over again was “follow the golden rule,” which basically states, treat others the way you want to be treated.  I heard the same message at home, church, school and even clubs and activities.

I have tried to keep that rule in the forefront of my life, however, sometimes I get side-tracked and haven’t even realized I’ve taken a detour.  It is not my intent to get far from that rule, but I must admit it happens.

When I am having a bad day I may become short with my children. In my mind I am just telling them the frustrations and troubles of my day, but they feel attacked, just by my tone.  It always seems to feel personal to them, and hurt feelings or anger is usually the outcome.  My bad day soon becomes their bad day too.  Before I know it, guilt sets in and my day worsens.

Over the years, perhaps out of maturity or age, I am learning to make right, what I have made wrong.  It is very humbling to ask for someone’s forgiveness, saying I’m sorry; hoping minimal damage has been done. Things we say in haste may have a profound affect on someone’s  life, without even realizing it.

Making an effort to think before we speak or act can make all the difference.  Relationships get better, communication improves, and new connections are made ……I aim to follow the golden rule……do you?

xoxox…..Sheryl