Chivalry Lives

For the most part, I would consider myself a modern woman. I believe we are much stronger than we know, can multi-task like no one’s business, all while keeping family close to our hearts. Even though I say I am a modern woman, I would also say I’m old fashioned in my beliefs and values. I give full credit to my Mom for those standards. She instilled them in her children at a young age, and had the full support of my Dad.

If I or my siblings showed any disrespect to Mom, my Dad would quickly put us in our place, often just by a stern look. Being disrespectful wasn’t allowed, no exceptions. Once I was a young adult, I understood just how important they were in my life, and how much I appreciated those family values. We were taught good manners, being polite and respecting our elders.

Over the fast-paced and changing years, some of those standards aren’t as common in people as they once were. Whenever I witness those values and beliefs in younger generations, my heart smiles. I especially love to see young men showing respect to woman, no matter the age.

In my current career as a trainer, in a corporate environment, I come across young men going through the program. Recently, in the last few sessions there have been a few men that have pleasantly surprised me by their actions. They weren’t trying to impress, they had nothing to gain….other than my respect, appreciation and thankfulness.

I am happy to report chivalry lives. So, here’s to pulling out chairs, opening doors, offering seats, and making someone feel special, valued and respected.  Well done, gentlemen, well done.

xoxox….Sheryl